One Night Friend

"I met a guy on OkCupid. We went on one date, didn't have sex, but continued to text when we were both drunk.  "One night, I was especially wasted and right around the corner from his apartment in Brooklyn. So, obviously, I gave him a call, and he told me to meet him at a bar nearby. We had a few drinks, and then decided to go back to his apartment to smoke a joint on hi ...

"I put an ad on Craigslist Missed Connections for a girl I met for one second at a riot grrrl show in someone's loft. We'd been looking at each other all night and then she introduced herself to me before getting swept up by a crowd of moshing people who smelled like they didn't believe in deodorant. I thought it was really cool that she didn't mind being tossed around like ...

"I was moving out of New York in a week. I had never had a one-night stand. I was out with a few guy friends that I barely knew. The club was full of overeager young financial types, but I was lucky to be around a few 'nice' guys. My friend introduced me to a colleague of his. Apparently, we knew some of the same people from back home. Having mutual friends made us way too comforta ...

"I lost my virginity at a young age to the older boy across the street in the back seat of a car. It was in the park, in the middle of the day, in a planned meet-up during a run. He wanted it. I had a crush. And so I gave it to him. And it never happened again. "The experience somewhat cheapened sex, which felt nonchalant to me after that. In some ways, that day set the precedent ...

"I was apprehensive about sex as a teenager. I didn't feel ready, and I definitely harbored fairy-tale fantasies about my first time being with someone who felt like a soul mate. In college, I carried that with me, so I hooked up and went almost all the way, but never quite there. And by my early 20s, the weight of my inexperience held me back in relationships — out of fear of be ...

"It was her first time. As in body shakes, hesitant hands, and overall timidity. But, let me back up and give a little back story. "Rebecca and I were set up by mutual friends and we decided to meet up at old town bar on 18th street. I've found with lesbians (at least the ones I hang around) that the 'typical' one-night stand where two drunk strangers meet at a bar an ...

There's a lot to think about, so whatever your reasons for having a one night stand, these 10 tips cover how you should handle them: 1. Firstly, if you're planning on pulling, clean your place before you leave. Nothing shatters tantalising sexual potential faster than the phrase "Sorry about the smell.” 2. Skip that last glass for the road (equipment failures, dehydra ...

What’s Love Got to Do With It? When a man has a one night stand, he pretty much expects one thing:  Sex. You know, it’s funny how women spend so much time trying to work men out, when we’re really not that complicated. Ladies, here’s some free advice for you: Stop trying to guess the hidden meaning behind every damn word a guy says, and stop trying to psycho ...

Men aren't supposed to like romance, right? Well, that's the theory, anyway. In practice, men may not always like to call it romance (and hence identify ourselves as sissies), but we feel the same yearning to connect that you do, to give and receive physical expressions of love and to continue the rituals of courtship long after our commitment's been cemented. In short, we ...

Many people are confused when it comes to understand what one night stand is. To be clear with this: one night stand is a single sexual encounter with another person, regardless of any expectation of further relations. Or to be more precise: sex with somebody that you (or another person) will NOT see nor have sex again. Why? Because on that way nobody don't have any ...